Most of children in Malaysia having
low self-esteem. This situation will make it children talk or comunicate with people around them. Children will be marginalized if situation not resolved. Let's find out what needed to do.
Measures to enhance the self-esteem of children is give children
attention and love. Parents are important to enhance the self-esteem of
children. Happen to other family, there is a situation in which one child feel
them less and not loved by parents and other siblings, they put the failure of
their achievement as the cause why they have not loved. Children also felt
themselves marginalized because of striking in terms of ability and talent than
other siblings. In this situation, children have to be convinced that love
received does not depend on achievement or their talents. They need to know
that every child has the advantages and weaknesses of each.
Besides, parents should not compare their children with other children. This
will make them more not existing self-esteem , but they will try to do
something to get attention of their parents, but unfortunately each action they
do often deemed incorrect and will blame them in the event of desired. Parents
need to be intelligent and identify the potential in every child and should
play a role in helping to highlight their potential.
In addition, trained to assume a responsibility such as littering, fold
cloth, washing dishes, making homes and many more tasks to be practiced to
children. In this way, the child can feel that he is able to perform themselves
at once can pride their parents which increase self-esteem in children.
Moreover, give praise to children because children also have feelings. Words of
praise can increase self-esteem of children. This will make the children to
rise more strive to do their best because the one praise and appreciation
interests in each whatever good them do.
Therefore, parents should play an important role to enhance the self-esteem of
children because children will only depend on their parents. With this,
children will continue to be more confident and develop themselves.
written by Farah Najihah Yusof
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